Yes, O-SHITS. My biggest one being my ex-husband. My latest one hasn't occurred for quite some time (about 3 years, 2 months). However, my ex-husband seems to keep haunting me. Its like he doesn't know what the EX in EX-husband is. We are divorced, have been separated since Mar 2009 and made it an official divorce in 2010. Hallelujah! Now GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY LIFE. No, wait, I took you for child support. Oh yes, now you think you're entitled to see a child who's mother you abused while she was pregnant. I have news for you. I have another child now by another man and I have every right to protect BOTH OF MY CHILDREN, as does my significant other.
I'm so tired of being harassed. I'm so tired of having him bug me. I'm glad that he lost my house phone number because I won't make the mistake of giving it to him again. Maybe he lost our address. I only have to give him a permanent address, not the one we're actually living at. I truly hope the son-of-a-bitch ends up driving off the Interstate into a ravine or something. He annoys the living shit out of me. I keep getting email after email after email. Beats the text messages, but right now the man is behind $731.80 in child support, not counting the extra $305 he owes for November.
Even worse is his attitude about it. "SHE IS MY DAUGHTER" heh, only by blood. She sure as Hell doesn't know him. I should teach her how to punch him in the nuts whenever he does happen to show up. That'll teach him a lesson. Maybe even keep him from having other illegitimate children. God only knows how many he has now.
What pisses me off even more than anything is that he acts just like my father did towards my mother in the child support court hearings... making up different excuses for why he couldn't pay a certain amount. He's working part-time so he doesn't have to pay but so much and has jobs getting paid under-the-table on the side. I know how he works. Unfortunately, the court can't do anything about it. Then he lied in court while under oath, telling the judge that he paid rent to his parents. This is a lie. That turd hasn't paid rent to his parents since I moved out, or rather, was kicked out. He didn't have the papers to prove it, but I didn't have the patience to sit in court for another hour arguing for another $50 or so to be added per month. Either way, he doesn't pay what is ordered already, so what the fuck does it really matter?
I'm so frustrated with this. I just want that ignorant fool to fall off the face of the Earth. I've wished that for a very long time. He asked me if his girlfriend could come up with them when they came to see my daughter ONE TIME, then every time after he brought the same girl with him. Nice girl, but isn't that a bit much? She doesn't have to be there sitting in your lap, hugging and kissing all over you. Its disgusting. You remind me of what my father did with his second wife when I was in the hospital with a broken elbow. They did the same thing right in front of my mother and I. Sickening. Made everybody want to barf, especially me. Quit using my daughter as a reason to try and piss me off or get back at me.
When I get settled into a good paying job and am done with school... THIS SHIT IS OVER FOR GOOD.
I'm doing it the proper way. I'm getting an attorney, I'm building a list of witnesses, and I'm keeping track of your delinquent child support payments. Then I'm changing all our phone numbers and her last name.
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